Valentine’s Day, the holiday of love, sparks excitement within couples as they rush to creatively convey their affection towards one another. Amidst the chocolates, flowers, and heartfelt cards, one simple gesture stands out: the act of asking one’s girlfriend to be their valentine. The few weeks before this celebration of love is a time when subtle hints fly faster than cupid’s arrows. Seen between couples everywhere, this action unfolds with its own unique blend of humor, confusion and warm significance. As Mustangs try to understand the complexities of teenage romance, the question arises, just how important is it for a boyfriend to take that extra step and pop the question, even when they’re already a couple?
In a world full of couples, some boyfriends find the idea of having to ask their own girlfriend to be their Valentine to be pretty stupid. They’re in an established romantic relationship; it’s obvious that their significant other will be their Valentine, so why the formality? Many girls tend to think this small but impactful gesture adds a cute touch to the season’s traditions and takes their Valentine’s Day to the next level.
“The first time I asked Giuliana to be my Valentine, I thought it was kind of silly because I thought she would just assume we would be each other’s valentines, but I did eventually end up asking her,” senior Connor Cosgrove shared about his first Valentine’s Day experience.
“I feel like if you ask your girlfriend the question, they feel more special even if you’re already dating. It’s just that extra step to go above and beyond to make you feel like a special someone on a special day,” senior Giuliana Marsili explained.
In many instances, although the boyfriend is puzzled by the idea of a Valentine’s Day proposal, he still obliges. In the spirit of keeping the peace (and avoiding any potential romantic conflicts), he goes along with what his girlfriend wants. Once the girlfriend drops many hints, eye rolls and sighs, her boyfriend finally catches on. For these couples, the act becomes a funny game of compliance, displaying the lengths one will go to for the sake of love, even if the logic doesn’t make sense.
“I felt really excited about asking my girlfriend to be my Valentine, I could just imagine the look on her face when I would give her my valentine proposal. I think this is a way to remind your significant other that they’re really special to you, and it kind of keeps that spark alive between the two of you,” junior Ayush Kawle stated.
“I felt really happy when Ayush asked me to be his valentine because it was a really cute proposal. He got me a box of chocolate-covered strawberries that said be my valentine. He also gave me a necklace and a Starbucks gift card,” junior Anoushka Rath said.
Lastly, some couples know the unwritten rules of Valentine’s Day, where the boyfriend plans something special without any hints or nudges from his girlfriend. A Valentine’s Day proposal is every girlfriend’s dream, needing careful planning, creativity and a touch of spontaneity. For them, asking to be their valentine is above a mere formality, it’s a declaration of love, saying more than words can. Every detail matters, every moment is a chance to create cherished memories, and every Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to reaffirm their commitment to each other.
“Me and Ella have been dating for a long time, so asking her was kinda a no-brainer thing to do. I got her a gift immediately, and she still is yet to see it, but I love her so much and I hope she’s really going to like it,” senior Dylan Villarreal remarked.
“I didn’t really have to hint at him to ask me at all; he just kind of came out and did it,” junior Ella Casper said happily.
In asking someone to be their Valentine, individuals are essentially declaring their devotion and commitment in a lighthearted or romantic manner. It’s a moment filled with laughter, joy and even a touch of nervous anticipation. The proposal might be with a bouquet of flowers, her favorite chocolate or even just asking the simple question. Regardless, it’s a small gesture that speaks volumes.
“This year I laughed when my boyfriend Zach asked me to be his Valentine because he failed at making chocolate-covered strawberries. He was sad about how they turned out, but I was so happy, and I ate the chocolate and strawberries separately,” senior Jasmin Kirkland shared.
Whether it’s done in a playful manner, with a hint of teasing or with genuine sincerity, the act of asking someone to be their valentine carries significant emotional weight. For young couples, especially those in the early stages of their relationship, it marks a milestone and is a step closer to better connect with each other. But beyond the laughs and eye-rolls lies the true significance of this seemingly simple question. The moment that captures the essence of one’s relationship, a reminder of the joy, silliness and enduring love that’s shared.
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Mahira Rahman, Staff Writer
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